“The code is more what you’d call ‘guidelines’ than actual rules.”
– Captain Barbossa, Pirates of the Caribbean
It amuses me every time I see a so called dating guru bragging about his ABC system that can get you the girls you desire.
I find it funny because I know there isn’t any step-by-step system to get a girl. You will never seduce a woman exactly like you seduce another one. That is why I will never tell you exactly what to do on a date.
Because every human interaction is unique and unpredictable.
I will not be in your head.
I will not bet on the date with you.
I will not watch how the girl feels and behaves.
I have no clue about unexpected shit that will happen.
How on earth could I give you a step-by-step system to get her?
I am either ignorant or a liar if I sell you “37 steps” to get the girl.
That is why I always share only principles and guidelines you can apply differently as the situation demands.
Because, as Captain Barbossa said, there are only guidelines.
That is how real life works.
No book, seminar, or enlightened guru can tell you how to behave exactly in real-life situations.
That is why, my young pirate, I always try to understand the unique situation you face and then show you the right direction. But, you must realize that the best mentor will simply show you the road that gets you faster, easier, and more pain-free to your desired destination. He can’t walk the road for you.
This is simply impossible.
Stop believing in bullshit and searching for magical solutions.
Focus on making yourself better as a man.
Have more real life experiences.
Become more social.
Flirt with more girls.
And if you want help to reach your destination faster and go to bed with the attractive ladies you crave, pick a mentor who knows what he is talking about and will tell you the truth.
That is for today.
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