Once upon a time, I met with Fotis, a good friend. He was, at the time, constantly flirting and seducing girls. One of his last conquests was a divorced 40-year-old woman that was amazing in bed. She hadn’t any inhibitions and was ready to fulfill even your most dirty fantasies. In one of their meetings, Fotis even brought another friend with him, and she was eager to please them both!
Fotis pushed me to go to the shop she was working and simply ask her for a date. With 90% probability, she would immediately say “yes,” he assured me!
I went to the place she worked and did as Fotis instructed me.
Indeed, she quickly agreed to go on a date with me and gave me her contact with joy.
On our first date, everything went according to plan.
We started talking sexually from the start. She encouraged me to talk to her dirty and tell her exactly what I wanted to do to her!
Not surprisingly, this date ended in my home.
We started making out. I took her blouse and bra off fast, began kissing her titties, then proceeded to her pants and there…
She stopped me!
Her mood changed, and she said we should stop because we progressed “too fast!”
And she meant it.
I tried my best to make her horny, but it was pointless.
We wouldn’t do anything naughtier that day because she wanted to take her time with me.
Crazy, isn’t it?
So we went on another date…
And another…
As you can imagine, I became extremely frustrated, and on our third date, I confronted her. I asked why she played these stupid games. Why at first, she was ready for everything and then suddenly changed her behavior.
Her reply surprised me.
I was the cause for her change!
Without realizing it, I gave her hopes that I was interested in becoming her boyfriend! She said that I told her in our first date that “I love to connect with women. To learn who they are as human beings.” So, she thought that I was implying I saw her more seriously.
Therefore, because she began to see me as boyfriend material, she wanted me to commit before she gave me pussy.
When I thought about it, she was right!
I was an idiot!
There was no reason to tell her, “I love to connect with women.”
I indeed gave her hopes and shot my feet.
In the end, because I had zero interest in starting a relationship with her, and now she demanded it from me, I left the date and never saw her again.
As you see, I lost some great moments of pleasure for no reason.
You should learn from my mistakes…
Of course, demonstrating your will to commit is something great if you are really into a woman. This will multiply the chances of seducing her. Yet, if the girl is already hot for sex, and you show that you want to commit, it can backfire completely. It will force her to delay giving pussy to you.
As it happened with me in today’s story.
She was eager to sleep with me from the first moment, and I destroyed everything.
That is it for today.
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