When I was 18 years old, I went to the island of Rhodes with my friends for a vacation. In my biased opinion, Rhodes is the best island in Greece.
And Greece has many islands…
In total, it has around 6.000, and 227 of them are inhabited.
I love Rhodes because it has amazing beaches, unique architecture since the knight hospitallers ruled it for 200 years, and a big capital with fantastic nightlife.
I waited for a long time for this particular vacation…
It was my dream destination because I had heard crazy stories about people parting and having wild sex. And as a young man, I fantasized about all the amazing chicks I would meet there.
You see, back then, I was desperate. I couldn’t get laid and hoped that something would happen magically on this vacation.
When I arrived at Rhodes with my friends, we went to clubs every night and tried to meet girls. Yet, the days passed, and nothing happened! And it was obvious that nothing would happen because, in reality, we didn’t do much to get girls. We just stared at them and hoped for a miracle.
And as crazy as it sounds, this miracle happened indeed one night!
As I was in a nightclub having fun, I saw a girl far away looking at me. She looked all the time provocatively. She was beautiful and dancing like crazy. I still remember that she wore black leggings that showed up her amazing round butt. Her ass was incredible, and because I am very “sensitive” to this female body part, I became crazy for her instantly. I wanted to meet this mysterious girl at all costs.
Back then, women didn’t notice me, and I had never approached an unknown girl before, so I didn’t know what to do. I took my time thinking about what to say, but as time passed, I became more and more nervous. My mind began to think about everything that could go wrong!
So, I froze. I stayed there doing nothing and just stared at her. She continued dancing and occasionally stared at me again.
It was too obvious that she liked me.
Therefore, in the end, I pushed myself to make a move.
I started walking in her direction but…
I couldn’t do it.
I just couldn’t do it.
I was a coward.
Approach anxiety paralyzed me.
I stopped a few meters before I reached her, and embarrassed, I returned to my buddies’ safety.
I returned to my friends and continued looking at her like an idiot. Unfortunately, after a while, I saw something alarming. Out of the blue, a stranger approached her, and they began to talk!
I didn’t like that and wished she would send this dude to hell.
However, this didn’t happen.
Instead, she was very friendly with him. They began to dance together, touch each other, and finally began to kiss! Shortly, they even left the club together!
I was devastated.
I knew I could be in his position. I knew that this girl was aroused and searching for a man. I knew that I should be the guy leaving the club with her. It would happen if I had the balls to approach her.
But I didn’t dare to do it.
I felt like shit.
I was a pathetic loser.
And do you want to learn something more disturbing?
17 years have passed since then, and I still remember the chick with the amazing butt from Rhodes.
Not because it would matter if I had slept with her. After some point, it really doesn’t make any difference if you fuck plus one girl. I still remember her because I had a great opportunity and let fear control my life.
And I lost many other good opportunities too in Rhodes because of fear. I didn’t do anything with girls there because I was a coward.
So…
I am asking you now:
How many women have you lost in your life because you let fear stop you?
Because you didn’t find the courage to claim them like a man?
Believe me, in the end, you will forget all women you approached who weren’t interested in you. But, you will remember all the women you really liked and didn’t approach because you were a coward.
That is it for today.
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