“Good evening! My biggest problem with women is that I can’t get the really hot ones. I can flirt, and I have sex, but not with the women I really like. I lose their interest even if at the beginning they are attracted to me”.
I received this message from one reader on my Greek site.
The guy has some success with women, but things get fuck up when he is really attracted to one.
To be honest, I have made the same mistake in the past, I admit it…
Every time I saw a girl that I thought was very beautiful, I didn’t approach her at all, or I approached her and behaved in a way that repulsed her.
I didn’t believe that I deserved her, so how could I possibly get her into my bed?
The problem, in reality, was not that the girls were too pretty for me. The problem was that I didn’t believe in myself.
Because you know…
There is no law that says you can’t have a woman specifically because you consider her very hot.
The women you consider special maybe are not so special for other men at all. Do you remember when you saw some friend who was amazed by a special girl that you didn’t find special at all?
There is no absolute value in the mating game. One girl can be a goddess for one man and indifferent for another.
That is how real life works.
Therefore, everything you believe about your worth and the value of a specific woman is an illusion in your mind. You can change it.
Why am I so sure?
Because I managed to get into bed with women who thought were out of my league by simply changing my attitude towards them.
How did I actually manage to accomplish that?
I will tell you the story:
As I got better at approaching girls, I saw that I was only approaching average-looking women. I did this because I didn’t believe I deserved anything better. When I realized it, I was angry. I said to myself that enough was enough. I had lost so many beauties in the past. I would not tolerate it again. So I started to approach only the most beautiful women, only those who, in my opinion, were extremely beautiful.
The result;
Zero success, I chased all women away.
I did this because I was very stressed and behaved strangely, submissive, and needy. I was repulsing the women. After some days, I finally understood what was going on. I realized that I had self-sabotaged myself. Thus, I said that I would continue to approach only the hottest and special until I finally managed to get one. Even if that means that I will get rejected by 1.000.000 women. And miraculously, only after I approached a few more women, I had the first date! This date didn’t get far, but it didn’t matter! I had my first date with an extremely hot woman.
And within a week, I went out for a second date with another model and had sex with her.
It was one of the best experiences of my life because a myth that had held me back for years had collapsed.
Listen…
Every barrier is self-imposed bullshit. You limit yourself only because of low self-esteem. What lies are you telling yourself every day? Maybe today is the time to challenge your beliefs and expand your comfort zone.
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