Every time I am out with my wife, I see how other men are looking at us.
I feel the jealousy in their eyes.
I know they think I am a lucky man.
On one occasion, actually, a guy approached me and told me:
“You are a very lucky man. You have a very beautiful girl.”
And this guy couldn’t be more wrong in this matter.
Yes, I have a beautiful girl, but it has nothing to do with luck.
I approached thousands of women and dated hundreds until I found the one right for me. It had nothing to do with luck that we found each other. In reality, it was a matter of choices. If I couldn’t date all these women, I wouldn’t find the one that was an excellent match for me.
So, if you genuinely want to find “the one” someday, you must first become good at seduction.
A lot of guys contact me and say:
“Hey Phoenix, I don’t want to become a Casanova. I don’t want to learn seduction and sleep with many girls. I simply want to find one special girl.”
And it is perfectly fine if you don’t want to sleep with many women. But still, you must develop some decent seduction skills. It is crucial because if you don’t, you won’t be able to choose. You will simply settle into a mediocre relationship with a girl you aren’t that interested in because you have no choices. It will be almost impossible to find a great girlfriend with no or limited options.
Think of “project girlfriend” like buying a house.
You can’t buy your dream house if you don’t have enough money. It is the same with girls. You can’t attract the right girl if you don’t have enough seduction skills.
Plus, you must choose the right one from many women.
If you want to buy a house, you won’t simply pick the first you see, correct?
If you have some reason, you will see many houses before deciding which is the best for you.
The same principle applies to women.
It is impossible to find a good girl if you don’t go on many dates and get to know many women.
For all these reasons, it is essential to have choices. And to have choices, you must develop crucial skills in seduction and a good understanding of female psychology. You must go on many dates even if you aren’t interested in getting in bed with all these girls. This is the only way to make finding a great girlfriend inevitable.
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