I once knew a guy here in Greece who was notorious for repulsing women.
Because he was tired of being a virgin in his mid-twenties, he took massive action to change that. In a matter of a few months, he approached around 3.000 women.
The result?
A few dates and zero lays.
Can you imagine that?
Flirting with 3.000 women and not seducing even one of them?
It is ridiculous!
So much effort for nothing.
But why did he fail so miserably?
Because, my buddy, he approached flirting just as a numbers game.
I admire the guy’s persistence. I know that most men never would push so hard for something they desire. But becoming successful with ladies isn’t only about flirting with them.
It is about evolving.
Both internally and externally.
Changing your mindset and developing some crucial skills.
After this dude made all this effort, he was exactly the same person he was before approaching these 3.000 women.
He learned nothing!
And it is stupid to try so hard and learn nothing.
Every time I approached a lady, and it didn’t work, I tried to get a lesson. To figure out what I can do better next time. So, even if I failed, I learned something. And with each failure, I became better and better. Until one day, I knew exactly how to approach and seduce an unknown girl.
At the end of this journey, I was a completely different person.
With a different mindset and a different set of skills.
To be honest, nothing I did until that point in my life changed me as drastically as a person as learning how to flirt properly.
Therefore never see approaching women as a numbers game. Instead, learn something every time you talk to girls. Even if you become only a little better each day, you will be a totally different person after a year.
And the best part, you will have dated many amazing women.
That is it for today.
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