Maria was an extremely sexy twenty-year-old girl, and I tried hard for 4 days to get her into bed.
After some setbacks, I managed to get her on the fourth day, and we had an intense and passionate night at her apartment. Having sex with a woman so beautiful made me very happy, as you can imagine…
Unfortunately, after I finished on her breasts and laid down next to her, something unpleasant changed my mood.
Her phone was ringing, and she told me to be quiet.
It was her boyfriend!
Word for word what she told him:
“Hi, Baby! I am fine but… I told you that I must prepare for the exam at the university… No, you shouldn’t call me because you know that I am studying… You know that I am worried about this exam and you don’t respect that fact… I haven’t time to lose… No, we can’t talk with messages either… After I am done I will tell you! I will call you later.. Yes…. I love you very much too! Bye”,
She spoke with him as if nothing was happening!
What shocked me the most was how calm and relaxed she was. She was such a good actress. Not only did she have zero guilt that she had just fucked another guy, but she also made her boyfriend feel ashamed for “interrupting” her! After she dealt like a professional with her boyfriend, she came back to me to continue. She even invited me to go on vacation together with her boyfriend next month! She would introduce me as a friend, and I would stay in the next room, so maybe we could fuck again in secret.
I had had enough.
I mean, ok, I had just banged his girlfriend, but I had no desire to humiliate this guy like this. He maybe was a nice guy. Why should I go on vacation with him to pretend to be his friend and fuck his girlfriend in secret? I was disgusted with this slut.
Afterward, I had dozens of encounters like this with girls that cheated with ease on their boyfriends. I finally came to understand that no woman can be trusted today. They have zero values. They are all sluts.
Becoming good at seduction comes with a price, and one of the things you sacrifice is trust. How can you trust a woman and get into a long-term relationship or get married when you have seen things like this? When so many women (even the most innocent and sweet little girls) cheat on their boyfriends with ease?
When you are young and inexperienced, things are romantic and beautiful! You think that women are little angels.
Yet, as you get better at the game and socialize with men who fuck a lot, you will encounter the “dark side” of female sexuality.
At some moment, you will wish to go back in time and take the blue pill instead of taking this damn red one!
Because from some point on, you will lose trust in women.
You will conclude that this is the reality and that it is better to stay forever free than to enter into a relationship and become a cuckold.
It is easy to believe that all women are sluts and lose your trust when you become experienced with girls. That’s one reason you see a lot of old players growing up and eventually staying alone…
There is a great fear behind their loneliness. The fear that they will be betrayed and ridiculed.
They can’t trust any woman, and I don’t blame them.
But maybe we are missing something here…
Rolf Dobelli, in his book “The Art of Thinking Clearly,” speaks about the Survivorship bias.
The Survivorship bias says that wherever you look around, you only see success. You open the newspapers and turn on the television, and you see about the nobody who became a rock star, about the unfortunate who became a bestselling writer, and about the hungry businessman who worked hard and became a millionaire. What you won’t see are the remaining millions of bands that went nowhere, the writers who remained in obscurity, and the aspiring entrepreneurs who went bankrupt. To have a clearer picture of reality, the author concludes, you must visit the graveyards of the unsuccessful to see the two sides of the coin.
After reading this book, I had an “A-ha” moment.
We pay attention to the one girl we fuck and not to the other who didn’t go to bed with us or the women we never approached because they didn’t give us any chance from the beginning!
The woman who behaves like a slut attracts a lot of attention. But the woman who honors her relationship goes mostly unnoticed!
And let’s be honest here…
Which player counts women he has never approached after all?
Or the ones he approached and weren’t interested?
Few men dare to see their own graveyard of failures. It is bad business for the ego.
For every “slut” you banged, there is another woman you didn’t bang because she just wanted to stay faithful to her man.
It hurts our ego to know that so many women have rejected us! Especially if you have a dose of narcissism.
Conclusion
Having read all of the above, you understand that any generalization, whether all women are sluts, or that all women are good, is one-sided and dangerous.
Just as there are men who cheat on their significant other, there are women who do the same. And just as there are men who remain faithful to their wives, there are also women who remain faithful. And let’s be honest, guys, women are usually cheating less than men in general…
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