It was a hot morning in June on the exotic island of Zakynthos that I learned a huge lesson on cold approach.
I was at a coffee shop nearby the sea together with the legendary Spiros.
His name probably sounds hilarious to an English-speaking person, but this dude was the God of the game with women.
In his 40s, he had already slept with 5.000 women and that without being a celebrity, super-rich, or extremely handsome. He was a tall guy, dominant, overconfident, and worked as a street cop. Every time we met, I tried to absorb everything he said, even though a lot of his words seemed alien to me. It was so advanced… I couldn’t understand many of his teachings. While we were talking, we saw two beautiful girls approaching the beach. They were two blondes with hot bodies. I observed that one of them had huge juicy tits, while the other had average breasts.
Spiros saw them and immediately said to me: “Let’s go!”
“What? Where?” I replied, stressed.
“Let’s go! Let’s go. It is time for a lesson!” He yelled at me.
He started walking towards them slowly, very slowly, and I followed.
While approaching them, he smiled naughtily like he did every time he saw a sexy woman.
I wanted to see what he would say this time.
What can you say to two completely unknown tourists?
But he did not say anything.
He continued to approach them…
He got very close to the girls…
They looked at him curiously to see what he would do.
Suddenly, while looking at them, I saw him make a bizarre move. I almost pissed in my pants when I realized what he was going to do. He grabbed the bra of the girl with the huge tits, pulled it, looked at her naked breasts, and said: “What are these?” I was terrified! I thought we would end up in prison. To my greatest surprise, not only didn’t the chicks get angry, but they also started laughing and talking to him! Unfortunately, Spiros didn’t know any English, so he asked me again and again what they said… And because he became tired of this translation thing, he told me to ask the girl with the big breasts for her number and arrange to meet with her afternoon in the same place. I did as he asked. So he met afternoon with her and banged her without a translator.
After this incident, it became written in my DNA that there is No verbal game. I was 20 years old.
For the next 8 years, I approached women in every possible manner by using every opening you can imagine.
For example:
“Hi, I’m Phoenix,” “What color underwear are you wearing,” “I’m from a porn company, and I’m looking for an actress,” “If you give me 1000 euros, I will have sex with you right now”, “I find you attractive and want to know you?”, and whatever else you can imagine.
I really tried everything, and do you know what the conclusion was?
That everything can work or not work. Because essentially, words have a minimum value. There is really no verbal game.
So every time you are stuck and don’t know what to say, say simply one of these 3 lines:
“Do you know where X street is? I am new to the city and looking for X?” or
“Hi, I am X and wanted to make new friends”, simple and friendly.
“Hi, I am X and I came because I liked you.”, Bold and manly!
After all, all women know why you are approaching them. They’re not stupid. If you have the courage to express what you feel directly, then you are already 10 steps ahead of the average man.
That is the cold truth, my buddy…
There Is No Verbal Game
What will count on an approach are four key factors:
A) The Person. Who you are and if you can support what you are saying. From the moment you have confidence and see that the woman is attracted to you, you can say almost anything and get her.
B) non-verbal communication (body language, facial expressions, tone of voice, and eye contact). 93% of human communication is non-verbal. That’s why the verbal part is so insignificant. Train to send the appropriate non-verbal messages and do not worry about what to say.
C) The right place and time. What is your context? Are you alone on a beach and in the girl’s eyes is written “I want you to fuck me” or are you at a table between friends and relatives?
D) The right person. Who is the woman you are dealing with? You can’t use the same language to a drunk chick that you meet at a nightclub that has half her nipples out, and to the secretary, you meet in a lawyer’s office.
By reading all the above, you realize how unnecessary it is to worry about the words you say.
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